Each and every one of us has a beautifully unique blueprint, a playbook so to speak of how we love, who we love and why - the shadow and the light, both equally beautiful. My first step towards my own healing was to take responsibility and figure this out for myself. Not because I was broken, but because I had no idea how much I didn't know.
And how much I expected somebody else in my life to provide me with the answers to my many questions, to make things better for me - instead of doing this for myself first.
Can you relate to this?
I realised that searching for ‘external’ change in my circumstances and my environment without changing my internal landscape was not going to create anything real and lasting in my life. And it definitely wasn’t going to bring me closer to the relationship I knew I wanted.
Still disillusioned with marriage I finally realised that no book, magazine article or blog was going to help me on a deeper level. Unless I made certain decisions and choices and took the time out to heal, make the investment in myself and do the work I had to do personally, nothing was going to change for me.
I was potentially going to ‘fall’ into a next relationship and repeat my ‘stuff’ unless I chose not to.
Even though I was outwardly confident and lived my life in ways that appeared to the outside world as if I had it all together this couldn’t be any further from the truth. I was great at helping and supporting others, but I had no particular insight into my relationship with myself. Or the lack of relationship with myself. The wounds, the triggers, the patterns that I kept repeating.
We can’t change what we don’t know.
We can’t let go of what we’re not aware of.
We repeat what we don’t heal.
Today I’m happier than ever, married again and totally in love with my husband. I live my life on my own terms and in a partnership where we support each other’s visions for our own lives, as well as our life together.
Today it’s my personal mission to work with strong and incredible women like you to create a legacy of happy, healthy and fulfilling relationships.
I love what I get to do every day - working with amazing women to reinvent, rediscover and redesign their lives – falling in love with themselves first, and ultimately finding love again.
Saying I love what I do is an understatement. It makes my heart sing seeing the light in their eyes and their sense of peace when they finally realise that their greatest love story starts with one person only – themselves.
You may be in transition, getting to know yourself again, what you want and what you stand for - but instead of getting stuck in fear, doubt and anxiety you can embrace your journey with the belief that you are enough and you have what it takes to live the life you want with the love you want by your side.
Now it’s your time.
It is all possible for you.
I'm here to show you how powerful you are when you step into being the woman you know you're meant to be, to help you discover your unique path back to love and move you along to creating the life and love you want.
What we do isn’t just about dating, it is so much more than that.
I absolutely want you to have the most fun, sexy and fabulous dating journey - and we will work on getting you to date from a place of confidence, strength and clarity - being truly ready.
But, what I want for you even more than that is to ultimately have the relationship you want.
The life and love you know deep down you're capable of, on your terms.
Here’s to writing your new story, the precious next chapter in your life.
Consider this your safe refuge.
I’m here to hug. To hold. To help.
For better or for worse. In sickness and in health.
As long as you choose to live.
You are loved, always.