"It's too late for me... " is a phrase that I hear so often.And I remember a time when I felt exactly the same. I was in my mid-thirties, getting divorced - and without the family I always thought I'd have by then. Within a short space of time I lost my marriage, my home and job I loved.Now I know...
Are you staying in a situation that is keeping you stuck and causing you to constantly question and doubt yourself? Is there somebody in your life that you're just not sure about but find it hard to stay away from or leave? So today I want to talk to you about an experience I think the vast majority...
If you are part of my community I would imagine that attracting and meeting the right person for you is a really important priority - am I right?Not the 'make every man want you' kind - but finding, attracting and choosing the right person for you. Your person.Whether you've been single for ages...
An interview I did recently with the lovely Kate Hartley from Flourish Therapy and host of the Flourish and Thrive Radio Show. You can listen to it here: http://tobtr.com/9848947 A frank discussion about love, dating, divorce and the things that derail us in life.Amongst other things we talk about:•...
Day 20: "I VALUE MYSELF AND HAVE A POSITIVE AND EMPOWERING RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF. I love and respect myself and take care of myself in every way."I share what I consider my most important job to be in my own relationship.
Day 19/21: "I FEEL AUTHENTICALLY CONFIDENT AND COMFORTABLE WITH THE IDEA OF FULLY SHARING MY LIFE WITH SOMEBODY NEW – I don't notice any internal resistance to the idea of sharing my life (again)."Just one key question to answer in this episode.
Day 18: "I UNDERSTAND MY RELATIONSHIP HISTORY, HABITS AND PATTERNS – I know myself and how I tend to function in intimate relationships. I don't have unresolved emotional issues, unhelpful habits and patterns that may sabotage a future relationship."I share 9 simple tips and resources to help you...
Day 15: "I AM MAKING, OR AM READY TO MAKE DATING AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE A PRIORITY – I am ready to be open to creating connection and create or join in opportunities to meet new people that are aligned with the kind of life I want to lead." Taking stock.
Day 17: "I HAVE EFFECTIVE RELATIONSHIP SKILLS - I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers."In this...
Day 16: "I KNOW WHAT KIND OF ACTIVITIES TO ENGAGE IN TO MEET THE KIND OF PEOPLE I WANT TO MEET - I know there are many ways and circumstances of meeting people and I am prepared to proactively make this happen where I can."
Day 15: "I AM MAKING, OR AM READY TO MAKE DATING AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE A PRIORITY - I am ready to be open to creating connection and create or join in opportunities to meet new people that are aligned with the kind of life I want to lead."Today we're just taking stock and checking in with ourselves...
Day 13/21: "I DON'T HAVE UNRESOLVED EMOTIONAL ISSUES WITH MY EX OR PREVIOUS ROMANTIC PARTNERS – I no longer have a romantic interest in my ex-partner/spouse or want to get back together with them. This area will not sabotage a future relationship."I share 7 strategies to help you move on from your...