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Dating After Divorce or Breakup - Becoming Successfully Single First
Day 5: I AM HAPPY WITH MY LIFE & SUCCESSFUL BEING SINGLE - I enjoy my single life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation, need or loneliness.In this short video I ask you just one key question -...
Dating After Divorce or Breakup - 3 Key Truths About Deal breakers and Boundaries
Day 4: "I KNOW MY DEAL BREAKERS AND BOUNDARIES - I am crystal clear about my non- negotiable requirements (deal breakers) and I remain true to these when I meet potential partners." Know what you say NO to - and what to walk away from. Because sometimes that is the only option. We all have our...
Dating After Divorce or Breakup - The One Thing That May Be Standing In Your Way
Day 3: "I BELIEVE THAT I WILL MEET MY IDEAL PARTNER – I believe that finding, meeting and attracting the right person for me is possible and that I will have the relationship I want. I believe that I have the ability to attract the right person for me and create the lifelong partnership that I'm...
Dating After Divorce or Breakup - 6 Key Criteria For Your Next Relationship
Day 2: "I HAVE A CRYSTAL CLEAR VISION FOR MY NEXT RELATIONSHIP - I know what kind of relationship I want to create and it is in line with the vision I have for my life overall." In the Find Love Again Workshop on day 1 we talked about having absolute clarity on your life vision, purpose and the...
How to find love again: 3 key steps to creating your ultimate life vision
Day 1: "I KNOW WHAT I WANT MY LIFE TO LOOK LIKE GOING FORWARD - I have a clear vision for my life. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated. I know the legacy I want to create with my life" 3 Key steps to creating your ultimate life vision 1...
Relationship Readiness: 3 Key questions to ask yourself
Just wanting something doesn't mean that you're always ready to receive and nurture it. Just being single doesn't mean you're necessarily ready for the relationship you want. Yet. Deciding whether you are ready to find love again, and what type of relationship you're looking for requires absolute...
Online Dating: 4 Surefire ways to win at online dating
Research is now showing that about a third of relationships start online so if you're interested and you want to try it out - read this first.1. YOUR PHOTOS I can't emphasise the importance of your profile pictures enough! This is literally the first thing potential matches look at so pay extra...
Consent gained through coercion is not consent
Consent gained through coercion is never consent.You should never feel guilt or shame just because you want to say 'no.' If someone tries to make you feel that way, or makes you out to be unreasonable, selfish or prudish when you stand up for yourself, this is straightforward manipulation. Learn to...
7 Steps to breaking destructive relationship patterns
We all have a way of 'doing' and 'being' in all our relationships. We have a certain understanding of the world and we have our own unique ways of conducting ourselves in a way that works for us.Much of this can be idiosyncratic and it makes us who we are. When we find somebody who loves us for our...
10 ways to stand out and get noticed on the dating scene
This is simple, ask yourself: Would you date you at the moment? If your answer is 'no', 'not sure' or 'not right now' I can help. Get in touch. The most significant relationship you have (and ever will have) is the one you have with yourself. This is the root of every relationship you have - the...