Dating

Consent gained through coercion is not consent

Consent gained through coercion is never consent.You should never feel guilt or shame just because you want to say 'no.' If someone tries to make you feel that way, or makes you out to be unreasonable, selfish or prudish when you stand up for yourself, this is straightforward manipulation. Learn to...

7 Steps to breaking destructive relationship patterns

We all have a way of 'doing' and 'being' in all our relationships. We have a certain understanding of the world and we have our own unique ways of conducting ourselves in a way that works for us.Much of this can be idiosyncratic and it makes us who we are. When we find somebody who loves us for our...

10 ways to stand out and get noticed on the dating scene

This is simple, ask yourself: Would you date you at the moment? If your answer is 'no', 'not sure' or 'not right now' I can help. Get in touch. The most significant relationship you have (and ever will have) is the one you have with yourself. This is the root of every relationship you have - the...